What are some tips to help me decide my career?

Hope this helps.

Career is just part of life. So first know what you really want in life like money, fame, stability or do social service. So first decide your life goal.

Read below and do the exercise given in the question for 90 days or till you get sure about your choice of career or aim etc.

What should I do with my life when I can’t see a clear goal?

FIRST FIND YOUR LIFE GOAL.

Since you have asked the question, i hope you will listen to the answer and not think this is the answer you were not expecting.

Hope you have time, i would say choose your time. But in case you want time, choose around 90 days.

Go to a career counsellor at his college or even to an outside career counselling centers which are in plenty nowadays.

How to choose your career?

Take an aptitude test, known your strengths and weakness.

Now do the planning:

Why is career planning important?

And most importantly find what your INTEREST lies in.

Also remember every person will have to two-three interests. So always develop two three skills. Even if takes 10 years be on it.

Sooner or later your time will come.

it’s okay if you want to be a sports person but that is no excuse for you to develop a skill in say computers.

Which is more important, love or career? What should I do?

Got your point. In fact, you yourself know which is right.

Anyway let me make it simple for you.

What do you want?
Fail in life and have a good career and well settled with everything at your feet.

Or life of problems but you have a person who still loves you, even if you are begging on the streets.

Love will not change, no matter what happens. Otherwise its not love. Neither you love or nor that person loves you.

Career can give you everything but not love. Imagine, you have everything but not a single person, neither mom, dad, girlfriend, friends, people around you, not a single person whom you can just call up any moment and talk without reason.

Hope you know there are families, who have everything but still father doesn't like mother, brother hates sisters, relatives hate each other. But they don't have any problems like money, comfort, luxury.

Then there are families who are road, but still they have something to look forward to everyday in life. They are ready to do anything for their loved ones.

It's like there is a certain amount of happiness in being sober as well. Like some people don't want to come out of love failure. Like that.

Then there are people who don't care what about others. They will do anything to be happy and even others should feel happy with them. And they it is false but they still feel happy. Usually big bosses, they have achieved so much and feel so happy with their status, that they just impose it on their drivers, kids, social circle.

Honeslty, even they know its false, but they are happy.

So what do you want to lose or what kind of happiness you want?
There is pain and gain in both. Choice is yours.

If you have both, it’s good. Wishing you both.

I know times have changed but remember humans still are made of the same skin, flesh and blood and have the same emotions.
Choose wisely.